Toes - A Fetish or a Natural Inclination?

Often when I go out with a woman, one of the first things I look at is her toes and feet. I don't care how attractive the rest of her body is, if her toes and feet are not attractive, then it is a deal breaker for me. Also, I don't care how unattractive the rest of her body might be, if she has beautiful toes and feet, then she has my attention. Why is this the case? How was this attraction installed in my brain?

I have read a few articles on the topic of fetishism, but nothing has satisfactorily answered my question. There is the typical view that fetishism is the result of association. At some point during puberty, a male is sexually aroused and happens to see some pretty toes. The pretty toes are imprinted in his mind and an association occurs between his feeling of sexual arousal and the pretty toes. Is this really all there is to it? If this is the case, then is there a way to interrupt this association or change it? Often times I have met a woman who I get along with. We have a lot in common, and there is mutual attraction. Then I see her in heels, and my attraction drops to zero. Her toes are not to my liking, and I cannot continue seeing her.

This association that I have between pretty toes/feet and sexual arousal is sometimes annoying. For example, very recently I met a woman whom I was very attracted to. She had a great personality. We would talk for hours, we felt very comfortable around each other, and things looked like they could turn into something really special. Then, one day out of nowhere, we went to a park, and she was wearing flip flops. I saw her toes, and I knew instantly that our relationship would not be going any further. It was out of my control. It was like a switch in my mind turned off, and I couldn't turn it back on.

Sure, there are some fetishes I have heard of that are completely insane. I mean really, who associates sexual pleasure with urine? That is too weird. At the same time, it is strange fetishes such as this that give us (toe fetishists) a bad name. I do not agree that having a fetish for beautiful feet and toes is something negative. Toes and feet are a sensitive part of a woman's body. They have several nerve endings that stimulate erogenous places on a woman. I have never had any woman complain about me kissing her feet and toes. This doesn't prevent them from making me feel like I am some kind of freak.

Women, if your man has a foot/toe fetish, then embrace it. Let him worship you like the goddess that you are. Don't make him feel like he is some kind of weirdo because he happens to find your toes and feet attractive. Do not lump him in with the true weirdos, who have a fetish about urine and other bodily waste.

DB

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Never trust anyone, especially a woman you are legally bound to.

"Never trust anyone," my dad would say.  He was right!  We can never really know anybody.  If you watch TV, then you may have heard of the show American Greed.  You may also have heard of the show Snapped.  If not, do a quick search on-line.  If we can never truly know anybody, then why do we legally bind ourselves to others?  In this case we are talking about women. 

(In the e-book, "How to Seduce A Married Woman" available at HowtoseduceAmarriedwoman.com I talk about a few experiences I've had with married women.  In one case, I mention a woman whose license plate read, "So many men, none as good as mine."  You'll have to read the e-book for details of what went on in the car attached to that license plate.  You'll see how her husband, really never knew his wife.  She's still married by the way.)

So, we go along in life, and we meet a woman.  We fall "in love" with her, and we sign a contract guaranteeing our misery until our youngest turns eighteen.  Little do we know that a few years down the line she will be humping some dude in the car that we are working our asses off to pay for.  "Oh I love her so much.  I want her to have a nice vehicle.  After all, she is the light of my life."  Bullshizenstein!! 

If you absolutely must get married, then pick a woman whom you think has the best possibility of being a good mother.  Do not marry for great sex!  Do not marry for conversation and friendship!  Do not marry for "love".  Women don't do these things.  Why should we?  Women marry and stay married for convenience.  It's time we do the same. 

DB

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She's not going anywhere.

Gentlemen,

So, you found a married woman and are reaping all of the benefits described in the e-book (scroll down).  Now, you are at the point where you are "falling in love".  Stop!  Never fall in love with a married woman.  The first reason should be obvious, but so many of you miss it.  If she cheated on the father of her children, then trust me, she will cheat on you.  The second reason is (you really shouldn't need a second reason, but here it goes anyway) that she isn't going anywhere.  She has no interest in leaving the life she is accustomed to.  It's too comfortable.  She lives in a house, her kids have a mommy and daddy under the same roof, and you are filling her with excitement.  Changing all of this would be an enormous hassle.

Sure, she will tell you that she loves you.  She will tell you that she wishes things were different, that the two of you would be so happy living together.  Hit the breaks!!  This is never going to happen, and you shouldn't want it to happen.

After all, once you jump into her husband's shoes she will find somebody to jump into yours.  Better to be the seducer and not the idiot who has to put up with all her sh@!.....  You've read the book, you know what I'm talking about.  Ha!

DB

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Canada
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South America
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Of course, my home, the Unites States!  Woo!



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Women like Jerks? What?!?

In mathematics, if A = B and B = C, then A = C.  The same is true in relationships.  If women don't like to be bored, and jerks are not boring, then women like jerks.

So, a note to all you husbands out there.  Don't be boring!  The quickest way to disenchant your spouse is by being boring.  Be rude, be a jerk, argue, be exciting, be spontaneous, talk dirty, etc.  Do everything, just don't be boring.

(For those of you who have seen the movie The Hangover, don't be that dude with the wife.)

If nothing is wrong with your marriage, then something is wrong with your marriage.  If your arguments are not followed by amazing make-up sex, then something is wrong with your marriage.  In marriage, arguing is a tool.  Don't get so caught up in the subject of the argument.  Who cares, really?  The whole point of arguing, while in a relationship, is to build tension.  The more tension you build, the greater the release. 

Marriage is a game.  If you don't see it as such, then you already lost.  For more on this subject, visit http://www.amazon.com/dp/B076M1HKNL

DB

Don't be a wimp!

As sophisticated as we like to think that we are, there are many inherent emotions from which we have not evolved.  This being the case, don't be a wimp!  Women are not drawn to men who are wimps.  Sure, they say that they want a man who is in touch with his feelings, but this is just a bunch of BS.  Deep down inside, every woman wants to know that her man can protect her.  A wimp can't protect her.

In marriage, (fortunately for us), there are situations that are very difficult and painful.  Husbands, falsely believing that their wives will understand moments of weakness, get a little too in touch with their feelings.  As soon as a painful event arises, they cry.  At some level, his wife might feel tenderness towards her husband.  He is displaying his sensitive side, and she gets to nurture him.  Big mistake!  That nurturing soon turns into resentment.  What woman, in her right mind, would want to marry a little boy?  In a woman's eyes, a crying man is equivalent to a little boy.

So, suck it up!  Don't be a wimp!  This doesn't mean that you can't feel hurt or sad.  After all, you are not a robot.  Nevertheless, regardless of how painful any event might be, do not cry in front of a woman!

DB

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45!

Gentlemen,

So, you are interested in a married woman, but you are not confident because of your flabby arms and man boobs.  There is a very simple way to stay fit without breaking into 5 gallons of sweat.  Sure, all of those dudes on TV trying to sell you on their insane workouts can definitely give you results.  However, if you are like me, somebody who enjoys eating and doesn't want to work out like a maniac for 20 to 30 minutes every day, then here is your solution: 15, 15, 15.

Believe it or not, 15 push-ups, 15 sit-ups, and 15 arm curls (with a 25 pound weight) can do wonders for your body.  This is really all you need to do to maintain a better than decent figure. If you are ambitious, then repeat the set.  But you may not want to do that, cause then you'll really start looking good.

Before you go to bed: 15, 15, 15.  As soon as you wake up in the morning: 15, 15, 15.  Muscles are amazing.  Once you get them going, they are easy to maintain.  The difficult part is getting started. 

Don't put this off any longer.  Get off your tub of goo and give me 15, 15, 15!

DB

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Mistake #1

Coming soon: The e-book "How to Cheat and Not get Caught: Rules to Having Successful Affairs". 

Here's a little preview.

Tiger Woods, Jesse James, and a politician from practically every state and party have been in the news lately, all for infidelity.  There is one mistake that all of these men have in common, a mistake shared by every man who gets caught cheating: they've all broken the #1 rule to cheating and not getting caught.

Rule #1: Do not promise your mistress that you will leave your wife for her.  Never, ever, ever, never tell your mistress that you want to be with her forever.  Often, men find themselves, literally with their pants down, and they feel compelled to promise their mistresses everything under the sun.  They are so mesmerized by the delicious body they just enjoyed, so afraid of never finding comparable lust, that they blurt out "Baby, I'm going to divorce my wife so you and I can be together."  Big mistake!

This promise is a big mistake for 3.5 reasons: .5)  You don't mean it.  1) Your mistress would be more than happy to carry on an affair without you making this promise.  2) Once the promise is made, your mistress will have you in the palm of her hands.  After a few months go by and you are still with your wife, she will begin to threaten to expose you.  3)  Once you break up with her, which you will do regardless of any promises you have made, she will expose you.  Just ask Tiger Woods.

DB

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